Thursday, February 24, 2011

A Trip of A Lifetime Leads to Self-Discovery. Shocker. :)

Waking up this morning, I thought for a second, that I was back home, then looked out my window and smiled :)  It still hasn't set in that I'm am here.  It's very different from America, but in a good way.  I do miss somethings about home at times but I'm so happy to be here.  I love learning and I feel like I always am here:  new language, new culture, new social norms, a new university, and et cetera.  It's all very different but I love it.  It's interesting to think, how all over the world, how many people there are, how many languages they speak, how different we all live. and yet we all have the same desire for an authentic relationship with God.

Belvedere Palace
It's also been blowing my mind how beautiful and authentic this city is to me.  Coming from a young country, historic sites are few and far between and can probably count them on all 10 fingers (at most): Gettysburg, Philadelphia, Boston, Jamestown, New York, St. Augustine, Hoover Dam, Pearl Harbor, and more?  Here I feel like it's a living and breathing history book.  It's mind-blowing exploring sites of royalties, palaces, and just to imagine a lively existent many centuries prior, right where you are standing.  I am just so fascinated with it all: the culture, the languages, the differences, the norms, the way of living, and et cetera.

I believe this is the greatest time of my life, while young.  I have always wanted to meet people from around the world.  I have always wanted to travel.  Although the idea of traveling is far much more different from the reality of it or vacationing anyway.  To live somewhere foreign is challenging/out of your comfort zone but exhilarating all at the same time.  For the longest time, checking things off my bucket list would take centuries, so it felt like.  Being here I've already checked off more in three days than I have in the past couple years of life: live in another country, learn a new language, meet new friends from around the world, try something new (hiking trip in march!), and learn to love who I am/was made to be.  As cliche' "eat. pray. love." was and the phrase "i'm going away to find myself";  I honestly thing, it's corny/overplayed, but rather true and concrete.  Although I'm still finding out who I want to become (professionally), I am confident in saying I finally know who I am, what I believe, and how I want to live my life.  I believe this is the greatest achievement of all, yet the often underplayed.

I'm still in honeymoon-esque-stage-of-bliss with Vienna.  I do miss things from/about home in the States but I do not regret this for the world.  In fact, I'm dreading going back in 5 months, nor do not even want to think about it right now.  If I get this chance again, I would say "yes" in a heartbeat.  I'm excited for the future, of what's to come while here, and exploring things straight out of the history book.  Friends and those I meet along the way, experiences I will have, and adventures I will take, will continue to be an added part to who I am.  Since I've quit my hotel job and took this opportunity (polar opposite of self-empowerment) I'm the happiest I have ever been in a long time.  I am so blessed to be where I am, with the people I am, and to be doing what people only care to dream about.  It's truly an answer to prayer and an example of what an awesome God we serve.

When this chances come to you, it always does whether you are aware of it or not, may be coming or it may have already past; regardless you must take it, hold on it, and fight for it.  When you get a chance like this, you can't think twice, there's no room for doubt.  Fight for what you want and know it will come with sacrifices.  Just like when you first learned to swim and or ride a bike, you have to jump in,  even if you're scared, and know it's the best opportunity and step in your life.  Trust me in this.  When it comes, don't hesitate, you just say "YES!"


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Side Note:  The following may be grammatically incorrect, free/random free-flowing of thought but includes insightful information for when your travels will lead you to Austria:

Here are some cultural norms I've discovered, not bad, wrong, or right but interesting:  
1) Light switches - are squares (in US it's a vertical rectangle)
2) Flusing the toilet - you have to press a huge square above the toilet (about 10"x10" +/-)
3) Showering - The shower head isn't elevated/set above your head. Rather it's loose, with a hook existing covering mid-back/down.  It's smaller, the base/floor is square shaped, and mine's even elevated about 8" off the ground.
4) Entering/Leaving Trains/Busses - To open the doors on the train (to enter/leave) you have to press a circle button or life a handle.
5) Honor system - Although Viennese people are known to be very proud people, sometimes snotty, they seem to be rather trustful.  Even though you have to pay to use the wiener lienen (trains/busses)  - you don't have to show your pass when you get on, but they may check, rarely that is.  (i.e. if the states relied on the honor system of buying passes to use the transportation system, but would never check tickets, the system would fail). 
6) Safe and Barely Crime - Vienna is really safe city. Little kids ride the transportation system here (I've seen as young at 8yrs old) by themselves, sometimes even in groups.
7) Operation Hours of Stores/Banks/etc. - Everything closes earlier here. Austrians seem to believe in a work/life balance.  Not as obsessed and solely profit-minded as the American culture.  Banks close at 3pm and most stores by 6 pm.  They also seem to love and take pride in what they do.
8) Linguistic masters - Although europeans are well-educated, they don't like people to presume they speak English.  (I guess it's the same as in the states.  People in my hotel too, don't like for Spanish tourists to presume they speak Spanish, just because we're close to Miami, since it's common, and spoken in many communities, within the city of Orlando.)  European education system is legit. Generally.  Knowing 3-5 languages by the time your in HS/College, is smart.  Communication is everything; lack of it always leads to problems.
9) Toilet Water - The toilets generally doesn't fill up all the way with water, sometimes none. (possible method to conserve water?).  
10) Everywhere is Clean - Never use the seats on the busses/trains to rest your feet.  Austria, like Germany, is a really clean everywhere you go.  It's a sign of disrespect, since no one wants to sit on the dirt from your feet.  (same in the states but untolerated here).  Side Note (SN): You'll never, if not rarely, find trash, dirt, dust, or etc in the streets/anywhere.  When I moved in I started to clean my room, but couldn't find a speckle of dust or dirt.  Sweet :)
11) Organic is common - Most foods are naturally organic, almost a standard. (where in the states it's an extra cost / huge mrktg tool)
12) Bring a bag, or pay for one:  It's common to pay for your plastic bags at stores (i.e. like ikea in the states too)
13) Smaller Everything -  Everything is smaller (than the states): the houses, the cars, the people, the portion of food...except the cost of living that is! lol
14) Fast Drivers - They drive with a mission.  Fast / sometimes crazy like those in Boston....well not as crazy ha.
15) Coffee-aholics - they love their coffee and they do know how to make it right everytime.  There are even coffee (sn: cigarette ones too) vending machines in our dorm and everywhere! 
16) Value time -  With their coffee, reading the paper, eating, or whatever, they take their time and enjoy it.  In the states, it's not uncommon to see people eating/drinking while walking or driving. 
17) Men have style - One of the first things that stuck out to me was men's impeccable taste in fashion, matching, and etc.  It's not presumingly that you're gay (like in the states) but rather that you care about your appearance and grooming. I have yet to see a sloppy male.  I'm liking it the stats.
18) They are interested in American culture...just respect theirs as well - With fashion, music, and movies, they can tell you everything about America you want to know; where we reply with blank answers/faces about any culture and or country of choice, except ours.  They just ask that you respect theirs.  A majority of the music on the radios is american (i.e. usher, david guetta, black eyed peas, etc.)  As unique and different as they are, irritant towards Americans at times, part of them is interested in our culture, and does so.  They recognize sub-stereotypes within American culture (i.e. ghetto, cheerleaders vs social misfits, basketball men, etc.)  I used to think we got fashion from them, but I think that is true with the men, but with the girls, I see a lot of American influences regarding their fashion taste.  The women still put their own spins to our American fashion, revolutionizing it. So it's a tie.

(3rd day here, 18 things, that's it for now :) lol. )

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Adios America. Hola Europa.

Bonjour!  

Greetings from Paris,


Paris - Charles de Galle Aiport
"It all began with a dream"

This past year has been in highspeed.  This time last year, I was applying for this trip of a lifetime.  During the six months of awaiting a response, I was sure I didn't get it, considering acceptances were announced late april / early may.  Those six months were the hardest part, waiting, waiting, and waiting.  Announcements, turned from late april, to late may/early june, to july.  It was getting tired of it after a while, preparing myself for the presuming dissapointment that would follow.  Not 'putting all my eggs in one basket'; I continued moving forward.  

I firmly believe that everything happens for a reason.  In the meantime, I took a leadership/supervision position at work, to continue my professional growth.  Ten minutes after I submitted my application, I got the call that I had been accepted in the study abroad program at MODUL University in Vienna, Austria.  Had I known about it earlier, I would not have challenged myself with the opportunity at work.  

The following six months, since August, has flown by fast.  Between work, school, and preparing for Vienna, I was rather busy and stressed, to be honest.  Looking back over the last year, I see God's hand working through everything.  "oh ye of little faith" I say to myself last summer, while waiting.  God has been awesome in making this a smooth process.

As I wait for my final flight to Vienna.  I can not help but be grateful, for the blessings and opportunities God has provided me.  Considering God knew us before we were even born, he knew already then, that one of my lifelong desires was to live abroad.  I wasn't sure how/where/when but he knew.  It's funny how our human nature thinks, such an opportunity was discovered by our own wits or even by chance.  Yet it was God who had planned it already in advance. Oh how he loves us!  What a great God we serve!

Anywho, going to go discover the rest of the airport, after I finish my pain au chocolat and cafe.  Till then, to God be the glory!  See you soon Vienna!


Best Regards,



Jaim